【育兒分享】新手媽媽之新生兒的日夜時差好難調。

分類:育兒點滴

從蘋果西打出生之後,阿木都住在娘家,住了一年半。

我老公,也就是蘋果西打的阿爸。
也跟著我們一起住了一年半。
因為,他必須晚上下班回家幫忙顧小孩。

起先,是因為,婆婆家是做生意的,無法照顧我以及兩隻小孩。
而我自己的爸媽說,小孩剛出生,要幫我做月子。
也要幫我照顧小孩。

我們答應住了下來,畢竟我也是怕我一個人無法顧兩隻。

從做月子開始,我老母就每天早上很早就起床,幫我料理早、午餐。
晚餐她是五點就下班回來煮。

那個時候,我是新手媽媽,我不懂得如何調小孩的時差。
所以蘋果西打週歲內,都是日夜顛倒。
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早上大部份孩子在睡覺,而我要做網拍生意賺錢,所以沒什麼睡。
晚上我爸媽下班回來可以陪孩子玩一下。
半夜長輩要睡覺,我們還是自己顧小孩。(所以我幾乎沒什麼睡)

我很好奇,為什麼看人家帶新生兒回家之後,時差很快就跟正常人一樣。
我們家兩隻怎麼調了一年啊!!
除了我自己不懂,我爸媽也不懂。

因為,當時我爸媽說,小孩要睡就要讓他們睡覺。
千萬,不要吵他們起床。
一眠大一寸是有此一說的!!

所以,我們時差是早上六、七點才能睡,晚上六、七點才起床。

我沒有故意調時差的原因是……
我一次顧兩隻,真的沒辦法分身!!!
小孩睡覺的時間,我也必須要跟著睡一下,醒了我就要戰鬥。

當時戰爭的狀況,現在想起來還會怕怕的!
就好像~~
現在看到別人生新生兒 我會覺得很可愛…
但我也會覺得好可怕…
(因為我顧兩隻新生兒顧到不成人形)

我爸媽還說,小孩哭了就要給他奶喝。
我也不懂,所以我沒有照時間餵。
當然,我也根本不知道小孩哭了是餓了還是哪裡不舒服了!!

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等到滿週歲過後,我才開始調孩子的時差。

我是這樣調時差的。

鬧鐘必備。自己也要有決心。
本來是早上七點睡,晚上七點起床。
隔天調早上八點睡,晚上八點起床。
再來調早上九點睡,晚上九點起床。
一直調到變成晚上九點睡,早上九點起床。

整整花了好長一段時間,才完全調過來。

但是,我還是被我爸媽罵了好久好久!
調時差、調喝奶的每一天,每一天都被罵。

罵我折磨我的小孩,罵我不是一個好母親。
罵我為什麼不讓小孩多睡一點 ……

還罵我,小孩哭了我不給奶喝
因為,後來,我都按時三個小時讓孩子喝奶一次。

喝奶時間固定了,才可以抓孩子餓的時間。
也才能抓小孩想睡覺的時間在何時。

結果,時差、喝奶的事情都調好了,他們的才把這些話收起來。
從此都沒有再討論這件事。

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我覺得我的決心,我的出發點是對孩子好的。
但是我必須承認,我讓小孩當夜貓子當太久了!!
現在想起來,我真的覺得我不是一個認真的媽媽。

我應該在孩子出生之後,一、二個月內就要讓孩子準時起床、準時睡覺、準時喝奶了!!!

跟長輩同住一個屋簷下,很多事情都不能隨自己的意思做。
常常都會有衝突。
也常常吵架,常常吵到哭到我顧兩隻已經很痛苦了,還要跟長輩爭執。
鬧得彼此都不愉快。

我沒有不尊敬長輩。
長輩也有很多的觀念是值得學習的。
我感恩當時有我爸媽幫忙,我才能撐過那新生兒的日子。
但很多事情不是說長輩不對,我就必須跟著照做。
只能說,有長輩在,真的很難做自己。

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