【育兒分享】每個孩子都是獨立的個體,請勿比較。

分類:育兒點滴

蘋果西打,常常被互相比較。
比較身高、體重、比誰愛哭、比誰愛笑、比誰吃得多、比有的沒的。

兩隻出生才差一分鐘。
一個要被稱為姐姐,一個要被稱為妹妹。
戶口名簿上,就有長女跟次女之分。
但在我的心中,兩個都是一樣的。

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小蘋果出生就少小西打429公克、身高也有少1公分。
根據成長曲線再加上個人體質不同,小蘋果比較小隻。
雖然有時候,她胃口比較差,但不代表她吃得不好。
吃飯速度跟份量,兩隻都是差不多的。

以前很在乎兩隻大小隻的問題,也在意別人的眼光。
但想想…也許人家也是關心,而且小孩健康就好。

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比較這種事情一直存在著。
對於教育比較這件事…..
每當兩隻被比較的時候..我都會給予她們適當的鼓勵,而不是批評。
兩個都有處罰、兩個都有獎勵,是我平常都會做的事。
我也希望她們不要處在比較的環境下,但似乎真的很難。
阿木在育兒過程都是講求公平的。
無論兩個爭吵、撒嬌,我都是兩個都有份!

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雙胞胎,常常就是會被拿來互相比較。
但是。
小蘋果就是小蘋果。
小西打就是小西打。

有一次,朋友拿糖果給小西打吃。
當時小蘋果不在小西打身邊,但小西打跟叔叔說:「等一下,姐姐也要一顆哦!」
我慶幸我給小孩的公平,她們感受得到!

我不喜歡我的小孩被比較,因為每個小孩都是獨一無二的。
我小時候到現在也常常被父母拿來跟我哥、我弟比較。
比誰有成就,比誰比較乖。
其實,有什麼好比的?如果真的要比,確實,我比不上他們愛念書的程度。
但是,我們都有不同的領域,所以無法比較。

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常常小時候,都會聽到我老媽出門去跟人家聊天。
聊回來跟我說,人家誰誰誰又考第一名。
然後指責我什麼都不好這樣。

每個人都有志向,每個人都有自己的一片領域。
無論你是從事什麼行業,請記得跟自己比較。
才會更上一層樓 🙂

每個人,每個孩子,都是獨立的個體..是不是…?!

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